Summer Get-Together 2025- 中文 (Chinese)

For our Chinese speaking families.

Please register here: https://tinyurl.com/5bat6ycp


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Summer Get-Together 2025

WHAT: Come out for a fun afternoon with other families with dhh children! (Please note this event is geared to 7 years and under) Look for the orange & blue balloons! (Parking lot closest to splash pad is at Beta Ave & Dundas Street.)
Bring a picnic lunch, blanket/lawn chairs & water gear if you want to get wet! Parents are responsible for their own children. ASL interpreter will be available.
Please check our FB (https://www.facebook.com/handsandvoicesBC) page on the day of as this is a weather dependent event.
WHEN: Saturday August 16 11:00am-2:00pm
WHERE: Confederation Park, Burnaby (Enter Confederation Park Water Park in your maps app)
CONTACT/INFO: Limited number of train tickets!

Register here: https://tinyurl.com/5bat6ycp

Download our flyer here: SGT 8.16.2025

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What the Invictus Games Taught Me

By Jen Gow 

I had the privilege of volunteering at the Invictus Games in Whistler this past February. My family and I are involved in the cross country ski community and I often officiate at races. You can usually find me at the start line, helping to set athletes up for a strong start to their race. The Invictus Games were a perfect opportunity for me to put my skills to use.
  

The preparation for an international event like this takes a huge commitment from a large number of people; a process that starts years before and intensifies in the months and then the weeks leading up to the event itself. My role was small; nevertheless, I had to sign up many months in advance, go through safety checks and Invictus Games training, in addition to the technical sports officials training I already held.

The anticipation was palpable in the days leading up to the cross country skiing and biathlon events I was helping with. Mother Nature delivered outstanding conditions, with pristine snow and perfect cold sunny winter weather. Participants took part in a practice and orientation day prior to their events so they could ski the course and try the rifle shooting range. While some were experienced skiers, for others it was their first time on skis! Not only were they putting themselves out there to try something new, they were doing it while being filmed for worldwide TV coverage!

Cross Country Skiing was the first event, where skiers were challenged to push themselves through demanding conditions using adaptive techniques. Biathlon followed, with its skiing and rifle shooting stages. How many of five targets are missed determines the number of penalty loops an athlete has to ski. I believe biathlon was the most popular event at the Games; perhaps not a surprise given the shooting skills of many of the participants.

Reflecting on my experience, it struck me how many parallels there are between the Invictus Games and Deaf and Hard of Hearing community events, with both creating valuable opportunities for low incidence groups to come together to create community.

When I spoke with the chairman of the Invictus Games, Lord Allen of Kensington, he shared with me that one area where the Games have their biggest impact is breaking down isolation and loneliness by creating opportunities where participants can come together. By doing this in settings where barriers have been removed, participants can test their true limits and rediscover their confidence and self-worth.

Like the wounded, injured and sick service members participating in the Invictus Games, our d/deaf and hard of hearing (dhh) children are not alone. Our families may not live on the same street, in the same neighbourhood or even in the same town but there are many of us spread across the province and beyond. We may not get the chance to ‘bump into’ one another so we need to make a concerted effort to bring our children and ourselves together. 

The Invictus Games reminded me of the value in doing that. At our local, regional races, there are often just a few para-athletes; perhaps two or three sit skiers and one or two visually impaired skiers. At the Invictus Games, however, I had the pleasure of seeing these athletes together in large numbers where they were no longer the minority. The sense of belonging was palpable. I’ve experienced the same at DHH events; feelings of aloneness are broken down, sense of self is boosted and self-esteem and confidence are given a big helping hand. 

As well as bringing the participants together, it also created unique leadership opportunities for local para-athletes, who led the forerunning teams that went out prior to each race to smooth the ski tracks, and who coached the sit skier participants. Similarly, DHH events can create leadership opportunities for DHH adults and youth to be role models to our younger children; people just like them who they can look up to and be inspired by.

The Invictus Games events were set up to be fully accessible to participants, with attention given to every detail, be that adjusting the height of gates at the start line, doing away with podiums for medalists, or providing sit skis, guides and interpreters. By removing barriers to participation and creating an inclusive environment, all participants were able to participate to their full potential. The resulting atmosphere was electric; I could literally feel the buzz of the excitement, joy and exhilaration from the participants. Likewise, ensuring DHH events are fully accessible lets our children know what inclusion really feels like, and helps them to explore their full potential. 

An aspect of the Invictus Games I had not been aware of was that each participant is able to bring two support people with them, be that family, friends or care workers. This holistic model not only supports the participant themself but can bring about healing and reconciliation for all, and a broader feeling of community that includes those they love and those who are important to them. Including other family members in events for our DHH children can also help to foster understanding and inclusivity, and promote family well-being.

The part of the Invictus Games I was involved with was over in a few short days but it was obvious that their impact would last much longer; the events were a launch pad for connectedness, belonging and self-discovery. Regularly attending DHH events with our children can have a similar impact on them.

Just like the Invictus Games, creating events for our deaf and hard of hearing children takes commitment to put ideas into action. Events often happen thanks to dedicated individuals supported by an army of volunteers. Taking part in the Invictus Games reminded me of the value in making time to be part of these events for my DHH child and my family, whether that’s helping to organise or host an event, or to take part in it. Life can often feel full and creating that space isn’t always easy but the Invictus Games reminded me of the importance of being intentional about taking part in DHH community events. I hope you’ll join me!

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Beacon Hill Park

WHO: BC Family Hearing Resource Society & BC Hands & Voices
WHAT: You will find us at the duck pond across from the Petting Zoo. Come
rain or shine so come prepared for the weather, whether that’s blankets, and sunscreen or warmer and/or waterproof clothing! Grandparents & siblings are welcome to join. Snacks will be provided.
We will have duck seed for those who would like to feed the ducks.
Then we will head over to the playground for play, socializing & bubble blowing (we will supply the bubbles). Light snacks will be provided. Please let us know if your child has any food allergies.
An ASL interpreter will be on site. Spoken language interpretation available upon request.
WHEN: Saturday June 7 10:00am–12:00pm
WHERE: Beacon Hill Park, Victoria
CONTACT/INFO: RSVP: https://form.jotform.com/bcfamilyhearing/beacon-hill-park-meetup-2025

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Growing Up with Deaf Siblings

Levi Traxler, was born and raised in Ohio with his 4 siblings, 3 of whom are Deaf. He is
profoundly Deaf and he recently sat down for an interview with his brother, Paul Szefer (pictured below), who has typical hearing.

What was it like growing up with a deaf sibling?
At the time, I didn’t know it was any different. We played together, we argued, we worked
together to convince our parents to take us out to buy candy. I was lucky that ASL was emphasized in our family from a young age because communication was never an issue for us. Looking back, it was a big part of our family’s identity. Sign language was often the main method of communication. We went to events built around deaf culture – Deaf Deaf World, Camping at Hornby Island. We were constantly learning about Deaf culture and how to communicate as a family.

Were there any early moments that shaped your understanding of deaf culture?
Sitting around the campfire at Hornby Island, seeing how the stories were told with so much visual description brought an extra level of depth and emotion to the stories that are difficult to achieve verbally. I still remember some of them today 20 years later.

When did you first become aware that your sibling was Deaf?
There was no individual moment. It was part of our family’s culture from the time I was born. We were lucky that our parents made this a priority and it enabled us to be a lot closer.

Did you ever feel pressure to interpret or mediate communication for your sibling?
I did – I wanted to make things easier and ensure that communication wasn’t a barrier for my sister. Even now, I need to remind myself sometimes that it’s not my job, or that it’s okay to take a break.

Were there moments when you felt left out — or alternatively, too involved?
There were. When interpreting, I am acting as an extension of both people – my sister when I am speaking what she signs to me, and the other person when I am signing what is being spoken. It often felt strange in social situations to figure out where I fit into that dynamic. The more I shared my own thoughts or opinions, the less I was interpreting authentically. The less I shared my own thoughts, the less I felt as a part of the conversation.

What message would you give to other SODAs who might feel isolated or unsure of their role?
1. I recommend learning sign language because it makes communication easier and will enable you to have a richer relationship with your sibling.
2. It is not your job to interpret or act on behalf of your sibling. If they ask you for help and you feel comfortable, go for it!

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FAMILIES TOGETHER 2025- 中文 (Chinese)

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Families Together- Fun Circle 2025

WHO:BC Hands & Voices, Guide By Your Side, Family Network for Deaf Children, Deaf Youth Today
WHAT: Plan to join us on the morning of Saturday, May 10th for this event bringing families with deaf/hard of hearing children together to play and socialize. An event for all ages.
There is a soft play area for little ones under 2 years, a climbing area with multiple slides for those over 3, a small indoor climbing wall and laser tag for those over 8. More info to come!
This event is a wonderful opportunity to mix & mingle with other families with kids of all ages and with youth/young adults who are deaf/hard of hearing.
WHEN: Saturday May 10th, 9:00am-11:00am
WHERE: Fun Circle Indoor Playground – 15355 Fraser Hwy #102, Surrey
CONTACT/INFO: email brianne@fndc.ca and register here: https://form.jotform.com/251057911151045

Please register by May 5th or until capacity is reached.

Download the flyer here: FunCircle 5.10.2025

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BC Hands & Voices Youth Panel Event 2025

By Kim Shauer

We recently held our Annual General Meeting (AGM), an evening filled with reflection, connection, and inspiration. A standout highlight of the event was the Youth Panel, where five remarkable young people who are deaf and hard of hearing (DHH) shared their personal experiences, challenges, and advice.

Sharing Their Journeys

The panelists spoke candidly about their lives growing up with a hearing difference. They described their use of various hearing equipment — including hearing aids, cochlear implants, bone-anchored hearing aids (BAHAs), mini-mics and Roger microphones — and how these devices help them navigate their environments. From managing noisy classrooms to advocating for themselves with teachers and friends, each panelist emphasized the importance of communication and self-advocacy.

Engaging in Extracurricular Activities

It was inspiring to learn about the wide range of activities these young individuals are involved in. Some pursue dance, martial arts and sports, while others enjoy music, building model planes, and creating art. They explained how they adapt to ensure accessibility — whether by using American Sign Language (ASL) interpreters for swimming lessons, having coaches use mini-mics, and speaking up when they need instructions repeated. Their adaptability and resilience shone through in every story.

School Experiences and Self-Advocacy

The panelists also shared their school experiences, discussing how they communicate with teachers, classmates, and friends. Some attend their neighbourhood schools in a mainstream environment in hearing classrooms, others are part of BC School for the Deaf, learning from Deaf teachers in an ASL immersive environment, and another balances both by taking classes in different environments. They spoke about various preferences for using educational microphones such as having the teacher’s voice through the mic amplified in one hearing device and leaving the other device available to listen to input from other students. Most took the opportunity to educate their peers about their hearing equipment. It was clear that each young person has developed strong self-advocacy skills — asking for support when needed and confidently explaining how others can best communicate with them.

The Importance of Community

A common thread throughout the discussion was the importance of connecting with other DHH peers. Many of the panelists build friendships through BC Hands & Voices events, at the BC School for the Deaf, and through activities set up by other programs and services like ASL competitions or DHH community beach days. They expressed how comforting it is to be in spaces where communication barriers are minimal and everyone understands their experiences.

Parental and Community Support

The panelists acknowledged the vital role their parents and teachers play in supporting their journeys. From advocating for interpreters at events to learning ASL, their families have worked hard to ensure they have the tools and resources needed to succeed. The young people also recognized the value of community organizations, like BC Hands & Voices, for providing opportunities to meet others and share experiences.

Looking Ahead

The evening ended on a powerful note, with the panelists reflecting on what they want others to know about them. They expressed pride in their identities as Deaf or hard of hearing individuals, reinforcing that their hearing differences do not limit their potential. They can do anything their hearing peers can — sometimes in different ways, but always with determination and creativity.

A heartfelt thank you to our youth panelists for their honesty and bravery in sharing their stories. You inspire us all. Thank you as well to everyone who attended and continues to support our mission of building a strong, inclusive community for deaf and hard of hearing children and their families.

 

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Deaf Literary Competitions

By Joy Santos

My daughter, Teanna, participated in her first American Sign Language Literary Competition when she was in the 4th grade. She has been a student at the BC Provincial School for the Deaf since Kindergarten. “Flying Hands” is an American Sign Language Competition that is hosted annually by the Washington School for the Deaf, where elementary students from Deaf Schools in the United States and Canada are encouraged to join.

I accompanied her on her first out-of-province trip to support her and be a part of the audience, and, to my delight, it was here that I was introduced to the world of visual literature. We are from the Philippines, and if there is one well-known fun fact about Filipinos, it is how enjoyment in showcasing talents through performance is deeply ingrained in our culture. Be it karaoke, dance, skits, recitations, and the like, you can always expect to see something as a form of entertainment at any Filipino gathering.

When Teanna was first identified as Deaf in 2008, one of the many things I was curious about was if there was such a thing as Deaf performance. Through my journey of raising her, I learned about the different types of Deaf literature. There are, of course, written works and signed presentations or narratives. What was new to me were the ways storytelling and poetry could be presented in Sign Language.

Some categories of visual literature I’ve seen are:

  • ASL Handshape Stories
    • ABC Stories: Each word or gesture in the story uses an ASL handshape from A-Z, in consecutive order.
    • Number Stories: Each word or gesture in the story uses an ASL handshape that corresponds to a number, in consecutive order.
    • Classifier Stories: Classifiers are handshapes in Sign Language used to describe classes such as size and shape. In a classifier story, 2-3 classifiers are used to tell a story. In competitions, these handshapes constraints are predetermined in the guidelines, and sometimes, the participant is allowed to add an additional 1-2 handshapes.
  • ASL Poetry
    • Personification: Similar to how it is used in English literature, personification is when a concept or inanimate object is given human attributes, and is acted out as such. Handshape constraints are usually also given.
    • Percussion Signing: Signing to rhythm. I personally find these comparable to cheers and chants.

ASL literature has been taught in Teanna’s ASL/Deaf Studies classes throughout her school years. She and her classmates are given opportunities to develop their ASL literary skills. Students are informed of upcoming competitions they can participate in.

There is an annual competition hosted by the Provincial Outreach Program: Deaf and Hard of Hearing (POPDHH) called the DHH Proud Showcase. Deaf and Hard of Hearing students from across BC, in both Deaf programs and mainstream schools, are invited to participate. Competition categories usually include presentations (both ASL and oral modalities are accepted), ASL poetry, and DHH art. This event is one that DHH students seem to look forward to each year, as they are able to connect with each other in person, socialize, and form new friendships. It concludes with a “Friendship Day” which is a group field trip to a local attraction.

Another competition that Teanna has been involved in is Gallaudet University’s National Literary Competition. This is held annually, and is open to Deaf students from grades 2-12 across Canada and the United States. Each year, there is a specific theme that contestants must abide by in their submissions. Categories include both ASL and written components.

I feel like my daughter’s involvement in Deaf literary competitions has not only given her a way to artistically express herself, it has also provided a way for her to challenge herself, hone in on her skills for this talent, and allow her to showcase her pride in being a Deaf person.

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Building Empathy and Emotional Awareness in My Daughter who is Hard of Hearing

By Sarah Francescutti

Empathy and emotional awareness are essential skills for social interactions, helping children form meaningful connections and navigate relationships. However, for children who are deaf and hard of hearing, developing these skills can take longer. Because they may miss subtle auditory cues like tone of voice or background conversations, understanding others’ emotions and perspectives requires extra support. 

As a parent of a four-year-old daughter with bilateral differing hearing levels, I am learning to navigate these challenges while embracing the joys of her journey. When I attended the Hands & Voices conference in September 2024, one session deeply resonated with me: the importance of intentionally fostering empathy and perspective-taking in children with hearing differences. Since these skills are foundational for building strong, healthy relationships, I’ve been exploring ways to help my daughter develop them effectively.

Inspired by the insights shared at the conference, I’ve been actively incorporating strategies into our daily life to help my daughter better understand her emotions and those of others. Here are some approaches that have worked for us:

1. Exploring Emotions Through Storybooks

Books are a wonderful gateway to emotions and perspective-taking. As we read together, I ask her questions like, “How do you think this character feels?” or “Why do you think they are sad/happy/angry?” By connecting her to the characters’ experiences, she’s learning to recognize and label emotions in herself and others. This enhances her empathy and deepens her engagement with the stories.

2. Naming and Expanding Emotional Vocabulary

When my daughter is upset, we use it as an opportunity to explore her feelings. At this stage, she’s mostly using broad categories like “happy,” “mad” or “sad,” but we’ve started breaking these down into more nuanced emotions like excitement, disappointment, frustration, scared or feeling left out. The goal is to equip her with the language to express herself more fully, which, in turn, helps her better understand what others might be feeling too.

3. Reflecting on Social Interactions

Everyday interactions provide valuable teaching moments. For instance, if she shares a toy with a friend or offers comfort when someone is hurt, we discuss how her actions might have made the other person feel. Conversely, if she takes something without asking or behaves in a way that affects others, we talk about those feelings too. These discussions are helping her connect her actions to their impact on others, fostering a deeper sense of social awareness.

4. Using Visual Tools to Explore Emotions

Visual aids can be incredibly effective in teaching emotional awareness. Tools like an emotion wheel, which lists simple to complex emotions, can help her identify and understand a wider range of feelings. Additionally, pictures of faces showing various emotions—whether photos or cartoon representations—offer a tangible way for her to see what different emotions look like. These tools provide a visual and interactive way for her to build a stronger connection between words, expressions, and feelings.

Why This Matters

Helping my daughter build a broader understanding of emotions—both her own and others’—is about more than just teaching empathy. It’s about giving her tools to navigate relationships, resolve conflicts, and build meaningful connections. As she grows, I hope these skills will empower her to thrive in a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming or isolating.

A Journey Worth Taking

Parenting a deaf/hard of hearing child is a journey filled with learning, growth, and moments of profound connection. While these strategies may take time and patience, the impacts are worth it. Every effort we make to nurture empathy and emotional awareness in our children paves the way for a brighter, more compassionate future.

 

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